Ideas for at home exercises for communicating better with my husband? - communicating with a stoke victim
I looked and can not find online. I've heard that if you are a consultant to the exercises and activities they can do together to enable them to improve communication. Ideas? We find a completely different type of communication and really try hard to be a common basis. Thank you all!
Sunday, December 6, 2009
Communicating With A Stoke Victim Ideas For At Home Exercises For Communicating Better With My Husband?
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The only thing I remember is, to repeat all the concerns in their own words and try to see things, the way forward.
They complain that too little and feel satisfied misunderstood him. The exercise will be repeated this process with their own words, as I see it is important that you tell him how much I understand what you are doing for us, etc, etc. .. "Then you give examples, it is important to be precise, especially with the people!
It facilitates communication by 1) confirming that the person is listening 2) he / she understand his feelings. The exercise should go in both directions, to hear their concerns and listen to and repeat.
The basic rules are that there is no study that the partners freely express their concerns without fear of the resolution / anger / denial is sport only to hear and repeat the concerns in their own words. Even if you have a problem do not agree, your partner understand your point of view is interesting, you may agree or disagree with her.
This allowed usa lot and helped us again. Not as easy as it sounds, because sometimes not "Get It" and endeavor to bring itself in different ways to express to you "Get It watch" very not to begin a discussion that both are just there to listen and learn to communicate .. .
Good luck!
I really have nothing to say "professional", but my husband and I fell into a ditch communications major, and he was rude ... You take what I put in the wrong direction, "said, I see an argument if I say anything more to talk about things with the children when he was stuttering (so long ago) asked him to repeat or clarification and angry just because I do not listen and what not, just a lot of communication problems .. So for one day "good" I said what I felt for our communication ... Thus we have determined a meeting almost daily contact for us to understand events or changes to the timetable for the next day ... usually after the kids are in bed and have a little unwinded.
It was also decided that a system during the conversation when I felt, was it difficult, or vice versa, I can only say quietly to know in a certain way that I am not trying to score with him and I can tell you that the communication does not work ...
So don & #039; I have all the exercises for you, but a debate on a day seemed well with this type of development to go our own plan.
Yes, do an interview "intimate" with questions like, favorite clothes, shoes, holidays, dreams, sports, politics, jewelry, sex enlarge the class and ask open-ended questions, such has been answered with yes or no.
Set the scene, you can with low light (candles) and soft background music, no television, children in bed and just talk, you take one or two hours, but I believe that most of the questions. I'm sure you will find some ideas on Google. Choosing this option will get you what you probably do not know and learn from you.
My impression is that both recognize that they need to communicate effectively. I say that as a divorced man, that they are united in this effort that speaks volumes about their love and concern for their union.
Congratulations, I want to get a concrete answer for you, but I admire your work.
That is what the marriage. Never give up.
My wife and I have "Relationship Rescue Dr. Phil," a book that has many great years to spend a few. I recommend it.
It is a good book called "The Five Love Languages" by Gary Chapman ... Super book!
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